My husband can’t manage a second round
Dear Pastor,
I am a 41-year-old married woman. I have two children. Their father and I get along very well. These two children are in school and they are doing well. My husband is a very hard worker. He takes very good care of his children and he provides for the household. He has a taxi on the road, which brings in extra income. He used to drive the taxi after leaving his regular job, but he does not do so any more.
Driving the taxi kept him away from home late into the night. He now has someone who works the taxi and give him a certain amount of money every week. I do like to see my husband at home. In fact, I love seeing my family together. My children love their father.
Dear P.,
You are 41 years old and you are very strong. You have not stated how old your husband is, but you are in love with him and he is good to you and the children. He has been providing for the household and you have great influence on him. He has something that brings in extra income to the home, and he can stay home
They are two girls, he loves them also. He has spoilt them. He cannot do anything wrong, as far as these little girls are concerned.
I have a problem I want to bring to your attention. Whenever my husband and I make love, he falls asleep immediately. I would love for us to hug and talk, but he cannot keep up. In a few minutes the man would be in dreamland. Don’t you think that something is wrong?
If I try to wake him up, he thinks that I am harassing him and I should allow him to sleep. Sometimes I just want to talk, and sometimes I wish that my husband will do a second round with me, but it is hard to get him aroused for a second round. Am I asking too much of him?
P.
‘Whenever my husband and I make love, he falls asleep immediately. I would love for us to hug and talk but he cannot keep up. In a few minutes the man would be in dreamland.’
at nights and at the same time earn money.
I wish more men would listen to their women and be in a position to earn extra income. I trust that you would invest some of the money he earns and place the family in a good position in years to come.
I don’t know if you have bought your own house, but if you have not, try to do so soon. Consider also investing in stocks and bonds. While you are sleeping, money can work for you, so do not spend all that you earn.
Concerning this matter of your husband falling asleep after making love with you, I would say to you, think about it. Why don’t you just allow the man to sleep? The man has done a good work, let him sleep. If you want more sex after he has had a good rest, both of you can engage in sex after many hours. Some doctors say that a period of at least 24 hours should elapse before a couple should consider having sex again. The 24 hours may sound long, but do not pressure this man to have sex with you for several rounds.
Pastor